Never would have made this up.

I can be a control freak sometimes. More so in my mind. these past several months have really been a test for me in the control area. I'm always trying to figure what God has planned for me. i try to make the plans but they never go the way I have lay ed them out. So I am obviously not the one in control.
If you would of told me a year ago that my husband would be called as Bishop and then My parents would move in with us and that we would buy a home I would have laughed or thrown up.

The first item is a very humbling thing. A pit instantly grows in your stomach when your Stake president calls for an interview. And then when the call comes you have all sorts of thoughts go through your head. Like "I think they called the wrong number?", "Do they know how unworthy and unequipped we are?", Do they know how young and immature we are?". But then a calming peaceful feeling comes over you that is the Holy Spirit that confirms the whole thing. and no matter how unsure you feel, you know that your Heavenly Father will guide you and help you through. It's been about Eight months now and though trials come our way and it's not always easy we have been immensely blessed.

Then there comes the merging of the Degruccio Ma & Pa and the Skinners in September. It started kind of as a joke. But then as dad stared to become more fragile and we look at what the future may bring we decided it would be a good idea. We thought many countries have their families under one roof and help take care of one another, why not us.

Here I thought i was going to be a lonely Bishops wife and all of a sudden I have a house full. Including my Niece who is about to leave on her mission.
My mom and dad's home of 40+ years sold in record time for how the housing market is right now. It was hard for them and us children to see that era end. I still don't like to think about some one else living in our home. And if I went to visit I couldn't just walk right in. So I just pretend that it is still there the way that it was with the furniture and pictures on the wall.

Then came a hunt for a home that would accommodate us all. It was hard to find all the specs. that we needed. we got attached to a few homes that for one reason or another they didn't work for us. Then on Halloween we saw the home we are in now. The next day I drove by and my friends dad who is in real estate let me in. I didn't want to seem cheesy but my gut told me this house could be it. i could see how well it would work for us. We came back again on Monday and walked through with Monty and mom and Liz aka friend/real estate agent. It was unanimous we all liked it! But we still had an offer on another home that we had gotten attached to. Not trusting my instinct I got on my knees and ask God what was the right house for us. I had my own feelings but this is a huge decision and a lot of money at stake. Within the hour the agent of the house we had an offer on came and said the bank wanted more money. the timing again was impeccable. We knew that we needed to back out of that house and proceed with this home.

Now just because a decision is right doesn't mean it will be easy. Escrow was hell! I think it is probably like childbirth, everyone has their horror story of their 72 hr. labor. Well we have our escrow horror story. Which I choose not to share right now.

So here we all are in our beautiful home. The trials in life are still here. taking care of our dad and husband for mom is in no way easy. To see your loved one go through illness and know that their time is limited is tough. But I can not deny that the lord has provided the best means possible for us to care for him.

So I try to let go of my control freak ways. Because I know that the Lord always has a better plan. Not the easiest but the better plan. Better than I could ever come up with myself.

Life is full of hardships, trials, and letdowns. No one can escape that. But when I get quiet and stop my busy life, shut out the noise, the blessings emerge. And those blessings always get me through whatever it is at that moment I dealing with.